Planning a Bridal Shower

When planning a bridal shower the first thing that you should do is set a date and time for the party. Check with the bride (and groom if you are to have a combined party) to see what would be convenient for her.

Try to organize the bridal shower to be held at least one month (not less than this, two months or more is best) before the wedding, because the bride will be extremely busy in the last four weeks leading up to her wedding day.

Also take into consideration public holidays and school holidays.

The Guest List

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Consult with the bride (and or groom) who they would like to have on the guest list.

Usually the guests who are invited to the wedding should attend the shower. Make a list of their names, with their addresses and phone numbers.

The Invitations

You can mail out written invitations, phone or email the guests. If the guest list includes close friends word of month would be fine. Be sure to include the date and time of the party; the brides (and or grooms) name, preferred gift color and sizes; your name and address (and any directions to the location) and your phone number, and RSVP information.

You can use pre-printed invitations or make your own. Make sure that these invitations are sent out at least two weeks before the party, this will give the guest sufficient time to arrange their schedules.

Be Organized

It will help if you have a time line to work with. Most of your bridal shower planning should be done six to eight weeks before the shower. Use the Bridal Shower Checklist as a guide.