Choosing Your Marriage Celebrant

Now that you have chosen the ceremony location, you will need to find a marriage celebrant.

If you are having a religious ceremony meet with the priest, rabbi or relevant clergy member, to discuss various aspects of the ceremony.

Find out about vows and readings and music suitable for your religion.

The officiant will be a great source of ideas for hymns and readings.

If you are choosing a civil wedding meet with various officiants and try to find one that you like and can work with easily. Every officiant has a different style.

If you have booked the officiant and realize later that things are not working out, let them know.

You should be comfortable with the marriage officiant to create a perfect day.

You are under no obligations to stay with the officiant, the paperwork can be transferred.

Some qualities of a great officiant are:

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• They answer all your questions



• They are easy going



• They are approachable



• They explain the marriage laws and church rules to you



• He/she doesn’t judge you for not being a member of the church



• He/she makes you feel comfortable



• The celebrant allows you to see him/her perform another wedding



• They meet with you after work hours


• The celebrant tells you what they would be wearing on your wedding day



• They provide samples of readings, vows and music.

Getting Legal

Don’t forget to find out about legal issues concerning your upcoming wedding this could include:

• If you have been previously married find divorce or annulment papers before you apply for your marriage license.



• Talk to an attorney about a prenuptial agreements if you intend to have these drawn up.



• Consider creating a will and other important documents.



• Do some financial planning for your future.

To find out about all the legalities talk to your marriage officiant he or she will be able to give you all the information that you need.