The Duties Of The Flower Girl

The flower girls is usually aged between four and eight years old. At some weddings she may scatter flower petals in front of the bride.

She may sit with her mother in the church (if she is really young) until just before the bridal procession is ready to leave.

If she is slightly older she will sit with the bridesmaids during the ceremony. But be aware that the younger they are the more unpredictable they can be, and may refuse to walk down the aisle on the day.

So it may be wise to choose the older child, or be prepared to accept that she may refuse and in this case you will have to go without her.

If you have very young children in your bridal party, ask the parents to help their child practice at home before the wedding.

Before the wedding

• She is available for dress fittings.

During the ceremony

• Walks in the processional ahead of the bride.

During the reception

• Attends the reception at the discretion of her parents.

Pays for

• Traditionally the dress, shoes and accessories are paid for by her parents (unless the bride offers to pay).

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