The flower girls is
usually aged between fourand eight years old. At some weddings she may
scatter flower petals in front of the bride.
She may sit with her
mother in the church (if she is really young) until just before the
bridal procession is ready to leave.
If she is slightly older she will
sit with the bridesmaids during the ceremony. But be aware that the
younger they are the more unpredictable they can be, and may refuse to
walk down the aisle on the day.
So it may be wise to choose the older
child, or be prepared to accept that she may refuse and in this case
you will have to go without her.
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If you have very young children in
your bridal party, ask the parents to help their child practice at home
before the wedding.
Before the wedding
She is available for dress fittings.
During the ceremony
Walks in the processional ahead of the bride.
During the reception
Attends the reception at the discretion of her
parents.
Pays for
Traditionally the dress, shoes and accessories are
paid for by her parents (unless the bride offers to pay).
