Father of the Bride

 

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Traditionally the father of the bride was the host of the wedding and because he paid for the majority of the wedding expenses, he may have had a large say in the wedding plans.

These days his role has changed a bit because he may not be the only financial contributor.

Before the wedding

• The bride's father may help in the wedding plans and decision making.

• Will host the first engagement party-with the mother of the bride.

• May help out-of town guest with their travel arrangements and accommodations.

• Gets fitted for formal wear to match or coordinate with the groom, groomsmen, and father of the groom.

• May attend the bachelor party.

• Escorts the bride to the ceremony.

During the ceremony

• Walks the bride down the aisle.

• When the bride and her father reach the groom, he will often shakes hands with the groom and places the brides hand in the groom's, lifts the bride's veil and kisses her.

• Sits in the first row with the mother of the bride. If they are divorced and not on great terms with each other, the parent that the bride is closest to, sits in the first pew and the other parent sits in the third or fourth row with their new spouse if they are remarried.

During the reception

• The bride's father may stand in the receiving line, or can mingle with the guests instead.

• Father of the bride can be announced at the reception just ahead of the groom's parents and the bridal party.

• Is seated at the bridal table.

• Shares a special dance with his daughter at the reception.

• Can offer a toast to the newlyweds after the best man does.

• Works with the wedding venue staff to solve any problems that arise during the night.

• He stays until the very last guest leaves and settles any outstanding bills with the wedding vendors.